Are You the “Retreat” Type?

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After the success of “Eat, Pray, Love,” I read an article that stated that female attendance at yoga retreats increased by approximately forty per cent after the release of the movie. I couldn’t help but wonder if these women were indeed looking for enlightenment through enhancing their yoga practice, or if they figured that they would find all-encompassing love Elizabeth Gilbert Style. But we can’t deny that society is looking for a way to escape and so retreats, for those able to afford them, are an excellent opportunity to do just that. But not all of us can imagine leaving all our worldly possessions in order to take part in retreats, which can often be several weeks (or even months) long. We have responsibilities and houses and children to look after! It got me to thinking: Am I the retreat type?

Yoga and meditation retreats take many forms and can take place over a weekend or spread out over several months. The escapes are often comprised of classes, guided meditations, yoga classes, hikes and healthy food, so that those who attend can find spiritual and mental peace, a connection with themselves (which we all tend to forget to nurture, somewhere along this path called life!), and of course, a deepening of their yoga practice. And although we might not all be able to pick up and go to an ashram in India or a sanctuary in Bali, we can find these retreats in our proverbial backyards, with easy access for those too busy to take regular time for themselves.

I noticed that many providers of yoga retreats offer several options, obviously cognizant of the fact that consumers need a variety of retreat options in order to fit the escape into their lives. In Vancouver, Semperviva Yoga offers several retreats, from several weeks in Costa Rica to a weekend on Galiano Island, just off the coast of Vancouver. Yoga Age website gathers information about several different retreats within Canada and organizes it all on one webpage, for those who don’t have a passport. And if you can’t even go further than a few hours away from Toronto, the central hub of Canada, then Sahayoga might be the place for you. Knowing several friends who have gone on this retreat, they all found it to be relaxing, welcoming and accessible for all levels of yogis. Oh, and apparently, the food was amazing.

So after looking at all the options available to me, I realized that as much as I thought I wasn’t, I am the retreat type! I can easily make time for a long weekend dedicated to developing a deeper understanding of myself, something that I often don’t take the time for, even when I know it’s vital to my own mental health. I can’t take months off work and leave all my loved ones behind, but I can go to a weekend-long yoga retreat and then take the benefits of that weekend and apply them to the rest of my life.

In fact, I have to sign off on this post. I need to go book my first retreat.

Kelly

Giving Life Back to Gaia

It’s always interesting to discover that you’re a member of a new target demographic you didn’t realize you’d joined. I refer to the term “Lohasian.” I first came across it in an online search about sustainable living, and later in Spirituality and Health magazine. It comes from the acronym l-o-h-a-s, standing for “lifestyles of health and sustainability.” Most of the people I know in the holistic spirituality community fall into this category; it’s all about being conscious of one’s impact on the environment and making an effort to live in a healthy, fully sustainable manner.

When we poison Gaia, she has no choice but to poison us in turn. It is not her intention to do so (she’s a life-giver), but there are only so many toxins she can absorb before they begin to redound upon their sources (us). The poisons we pump into the air, the water and the soil find their way back to us: we breathe in pollutants, we drink tainted water; we eat food grown in toxic soil.

It can be frustrating–even depressing–to ponder how little power we have over the world’s patterns of consumption. This is particularly true in the United States, where our energy consumption and resulting pollution levels are higher than in any other country (although China and India are currently in a race to join us). Can our efforts to conserve energy and limit our carbon footprints compete with a worldwide policy of burning fossil fuels? With presidential candidates advocating “personhood” for corporations whose only concern is profit, how can our efforts to recycle and limit our energy consumption have any real impact?
I submit that the situation is considerably less bleak than it may seem. Yes, global warming has already reached dangerous levels and continues to increase. However, until a few decades ago, pollution was hardly talked about at all.  The Environmental Protection Agency is a scant four decades old; the terms “global warming” and “climate change” were virtually unknown outside scientific circles until the 1990s. Today, “going green” is one of the most pervasive topics in the global lexicon. New companies are making a point of being environmentally conscious from the start; even manufacturers of plastic trash bags try to find a way to make their products (or at least their advertising) more environmentally-friendly! The point is that it takes time to raise global awareness of an issue; but once it is raised, the purchasing power of ordinary people often causes corporations to do the right thing. And young people raised in a culture in which environmental concern is a given are much more likely to make environmentally sound decisions once they reach positions of influence in business and politics.

Meditation (something that most of us “Lohasians” do regularly) is all about awareness—awareness of what’s going on within you and in your environment. If you sit with awareness of your carbon footprint in meditation for twenty minutes, you’ll arise knowing exactly what changes you need to make. Here are some of the changes our environmental meditations have led us to make in our household:

  • Limiting water use. Simply turning off the water when we’re brushing our teeth or shaving saves gallons of water. Since that water is usually heated when we’re shaving, it’s even more important to do it then.
  • Avoiding driving when possible. We try to walk or ride a bike whenever it’s feasible. We share rides and recently joined a carpool. We’ve resolved to take public transportation more frequently.
  • We’ve resolved to drive smaller, more energy-efficient vehicles. When we buy a new car, we plan to choose a hybrid model. In the meantime, we’re finding out where hybrid fuels (fuels which mix gasoline with ethanol) are sold and filling up there whenever possible.
  • We’ve been recycling for years; we want to improve in the areas of reusing, repairing, and re-purposing.
  • We now bring our own reusable bags to the grocery and drug store. We’re trying to avoid plastic bags when we can.
  • We’ll soon be buying a water filter for the tap and reusable water containers to take the place of hundreds of plastic water bottles.
  • In cold weather, we’re wearing extra layers of clothing at home, so we can comfortably turn down the thermostat. During spring and autumn, we’ll be opening the windows as often as possible, using heat and air conditioning as seldom as the weather allows. In summer, we try to set our air conditioning no lower than 77 degrees. It’s really cool enough for comfort; we’ve found that we don’t need to chill our home to unseasonably cool temperatures to be comfortable. We plan to set our thermostat on a timer so it isn’t pumping out heat or air conditioning when no one’s around.
  • We’ve switched to low-wattage bulbs and we’re trying to get into the habit of turning off the lights when they’re not in use.
  • Eventually, we’ll be installing solar panels in our home. We have an appointment with a contractor to check and maintain the insulation.

These are just a few changes we’ve made; it feels great to be kind to Gaia! Your own sustainability meditation will no doubt yield even more ideas for reducing your impact on the environment. Thich Nhat Hahn recently promoted a worldwide “No Car Day” – choosing one day each week to not use an automobile–as a way of reducing emissions. If even a small percent of the world’s population were to join him in this project, the reduction in greenhouse gases would be highly significant. Don’t worry; we’ll be switching to renewable energy sources soon—the fossils are running out! (Isn’t it madness that we power the whole planet on dead dinosaurs? If ever there were a more obviously finite resource, petroleum products have to be it!) Hybrid and fully electric cars are becoming more affordable and mainstream; solar power, wind turbines, and other sane energy sources are in their ascendancy.

“Lifestyles of health and sustainability” can be more than a target demographic; we can make them the new “normal.” Gaia will thank us by giving us clean air to breathe, pure water to drink, and fully non-toxic foods to eat.

Does your yoga world need some organization?

Google the word “yoga” and a million different sites will pop up for your perusal. In fact, it quickly becomes difficult to discern the credible from the crazy, and you could easily waste hours of your time trying to to research one small detail of your practice. As a former military logistics officer, whose job it was to be the penultimate of organized, the mass of information overwhelms and exhausts me.

So you can imagine my excitement to come across websites like Yoga Vancouver and Yoga Toronto. Want to see what classes are running and at which studios? Want to connect with other yogis? Want to find a specific teacher or read about upcoming yoga-related events? These websites let you do all of these things and answer of all these questions with a quick click of your mouse button. In a matter of 15 seconds, I was able to wade through the slew of offered classes and instead, pare them down by a variety of different categories; which class was running next, which studio is closest to me, and what type of yoga was being taught. Brilliant. Organized. Right up my alley.

These sites have some really great features to them, all of which didn’t take me long to navigate. There is a classifieds sections where users can easily access anything from yoga items to massage practitioners to wellness books. There is a whole section dedicated to yoga instructors, with information on everything from insurance to finding studio space. But perhaps my favourite part of the site was the Social Yogis link, which instantly takes you to a site that allows you to connect with other yoga lovers, watch instructional videos and participate in forums. I felt I was being given intimate insight into the daily practices of the site members, giving me new ideas for expanding and developing my own routine. Websites like these, along with Yogaflavouredlife.com, make deepening your practice that much easier, because they allow easy access to information, by collecting sources from a variety of places and delivering it to you all in one nice and tidy package.

So if, like me, you enjoy a little organization with your warrior pose, these websites are for you. With oodles of information at your fingertips, at the very least, these sites are worth checking out.

Kelly

Healing Holistically

Me after my knee surgery in 2010

It would be the understatement of the century for me to say that I am a bit of a doctor connoisseur. In the last eight years, you name it, I’ve seen it. And this is due either to my knee injury or as of late, my Grave’s disease. So in the last few years, I’ve met varying types of doctors and specialists; general practitioners, acupuncturists, physiotherapists, pain specialists, endocrinologists, radiologists and orthopedic surgeons. And in that range of doctors, I’ve met the ones who were filled with compassion and the ones that should have left their medical licenses at the front door or in the hands of a monkey. And when I leave the latter variety, I’m often left thinking, “Why would you get into the business of healing if you don’t care about the patient?”

My Grave’s Disease was diagnosed in a rather strange way. I found myself sleeping through my alarm over several months, my heart raced while I lay in bed, and I felt such extreme exhaustion that it was nearly inexplicable. I complained to my doctor several times but since I always appeared upbeat and otherwise healthy, no investigative work was done until months later, I refused to leave the office until someone took some blood and completed some lab work. I should say that I’ve been quite lucky during my time in the military, as we have excellent, and free, medical care. So with my recent medical release from the forces, I was worried about where my medical treatment would pick up, especially considering I was in the middle of coping with my Grave’s disease. So as I left the military release office, I realized that now that I have a choice, I want a different kind of medical treatment, in which my diagnoses extended beyond my typical symptoms and instead, looked at my body and its potential to heal as a whole. I found that in the Bridge Health Clinic.

The Bridge Health Clinic, located in Vancouver, BC, was recommended to me by Georgina (lovingly called Georgie by most) Durcan, who is the reiki master, intuitive healer and wellness coach at the clinic. I had the pleasure of being introduced to the wonderful Mrs. Durcan by a friend of mine and we’ve become fast friends who bonded instantly. So when she heard about my health problems, she told me that I simply must come to the clinic and meet Divi.

Dr. Divi Chandra, an MD and medical intuitive, spearheaded the fantastic Bridge Health that uses both eastern and western medicines, approaching healing holistically, vice just treating symptoms without investigating the root cause of illnesses. They also run monthly seminars, dedicated to teaching patients to be active participants in their own health plans, and helping people to realize that our stress levels and other daily routines can contribute greatly to our wellness. There’s even a re-connective healer, empowerment coach and hypnotherapist on staff. Just what I need!

I made my first appointment and…okay, that’s a lie right there. I didn’t even make my appointment…they called ME! And to make it even more exciting, they called me and said, “Would you like to come in tomorrow or the next day to meet the doctor?” What? Really?!? My mom just booked her annual physical with her doctor and couldn’t get in until January. Seriously. These people must be Gods. So when I finally met Dr. Chandra (who was gloriously on time, by the way), I was stunned by the compassion and care with which she handled my case. After explaining my medical history, she reached out, touched my arm and said, “Wow! So you’ve been through a lot!” Isn’t that just nice to hear? To have someone acknowledge that life is tough sometimes and that hey, you’ve done alright in surviving it? I nearly reached across the room and hugged her.

Just last week, a friend of mine complained that she was worried something was wrong with her medically, but her doctor brushed her off and refused to pursue it. My response was almost automatic. “Go see the Bridge Health Clinic.” I rattled off the address and phone number and my friend walked away excited to get some answers and to get to the bottom of just “not feeling quite right.”

So although it may seem like it is, this post isn’t in whole a pitch of the Bridge Health Clinic, but rather, a push for readers to approach their health in a way that goes beyond what we can see in the mirror. Any person can overcome their maladies for an evening and come across happy and well, but soon, symptoms will get the better of us and find different ways to manifest themselves. And personally, I know that my stress level has contributed greatly to the way my symptoms have presented themselves, a sure sign that I need to delve a bit deeper into my yoga and meditation practices.

So don’t take no for an answer. Approach your doctor about alternative healing methods and how they might work with your current medical practice, or for that matter, how they may contradict your current plan. Take control of your own health. It’s your body, after all.

Kelly

Sacred Spaces

Do you have a “sacred space” devoted to your times of meditation? Most practitioners do. Of course, any place can be deemed sacred by the meditation practitioner; it doesn’t have any specific physical requirements. The picture below…

…shows my outdoor space of choice (see the bench at the top of the waterfall?). My indoor space looks like this:

May I give you a brief tour? I love genuine antiques, especially those that have deep meanings for their owners. We acquired the gorgeous Asian display case above at a privately-owned antique shop; from the moment I laid eyes on it, I knew it wanted to come home with me to help define my meditative space. I enjoy lighting candles before beginning to meditate, hence the four candles you see on the left and center. (I would gladly light incense as well, but my wife is terribly allergic!) On the left to the rear sits a little statue of the Goddess Gaia, a depiction of divinity as the Spirit of the Earth. Center right, I have flowers that are constantly being replaced. My Sensei taught me that flowers are always on their way to becoming trash, and trash is always on its way to becoming flowers. If we learn to “compost” the unpleasant things that come into our lives, we can plant them and enjoy the beauty of the flowers that grow in their place.

Finally, to the right, I have a Tibetan Bell. It’s the genuine article, given to me by my daughter, and one of my most prized possessions. In Mindfulness Meditation, we open and close our sitting meditation by “inviting the bell to sound.” On the in-breath, we say silently, “Listen! Listen!” and on the out–breath, we silently recite, “That wonderful sound brings me back to my true self.” Then I sit on my mat in a half-lotus position (the full lotus strains my muscles) and spend about twenty minutes repeating a mantra silently on my in- and out-breaths. It’s very beautiful, and a most effective way to center and focus the mind.

Meditation as I understand it is about bringing mind, body and spirit together in a perfectly unified whole through conscious breathing. I sometimes use the Sanskrit mantra, Om Nama Shivaya, (“I bow to the divine within.”) At other times I repeat one of the beautiful mantras taught by the Vietnamese Zen Master Thich Naht Hahn. The simplest of these is this:

Breathing in, I know I am breathing in;

Breathing out, I know I am breathing out.

Simple awareness of breathing is magical. Thich Naht Hahn teaches that, while our minds and bodies are often in different places, conscious breathing brings them together again, allowing us to be fully present. Simple breathing, if guided by deep awareness, has the power to unite disparate parts of our being.

Closing the meditation, I blow out the candles, remembering to inwardly extinguish the poisons of hatred, greed, and ignorance. Then I invite the bell to sound once more, and allow its reminder of “coming back to my true self” into the day.

Best regards,
William K Ferro